Random catch up

I have been quite busy lately, and feel like I have been going from one thing to another. It didn’t help that I was sleep deprived some days (we have been getting better sleep, except last night when we woke 3 times for nightmares and power cuts – my daughter has a light on, so she freaked out in the middle of the night when it was pitch black.)

I’m still keeping up the Friday Fun Day with the kids. We took some bread to Aotea Lagoon and fed the ducks, had a play on the playground, then followed the mini train track all around the lagoon.

We had hubby’s family over during the weekend. We all met up with the extended family at Oriental Parade.

I captured my daughter playing with her cousin. I loved watching my niece go from being apprehensive about touching the sand, to digging her feet through the sand, then scooping it up with her wee hands and watching it run through her fingers….so cute!!

We heard these HUGE engine sounds, and looked over to find these boats racing by. I’ve never seen anything like this close up!

They were having Powerboat Racing in the bays. And boy were they loud! It was pretty spectacular to watch.

I hope the weather will be kind to us during the next two weeks of school holidays. I’m looking forward to relaxing and slowing down (as much as you can with 4 kids…hehehe)

I have already borrowed a few treats for me from the library. I have seen other versions of Mansfield Park & Jane Eyre…so I’m looking forward to seeing these ones. (Post edit: Watched the movie tonight. I was really enjoying this adaptation of Mansfield Park. I thought it flowed well – which is sometimes hard to do when you adapt a film from a big novel. Then all of a sudden it got weird, and deviated from the book. Just when you thought that you were pretty safe with Jane Austen movies, it got a bit too racey for me.)

Always & Forever is an audio book. I have never tried audio books, so we’ll see how it goes.

And then I got Hiding Places after reading the positive comments about the book on Steph’s post where she talked about books she would like to read. (Check out the comment section, there are heaps of recommendations on books!) Post edit: Just finished Hiding Places…Oh my! What a great book! Really inspirational!! So glad I read it.

We had a huge package arrive in the mail the other day. I was excited to see that it was the Spa Factory set that we won at Kiwi Mummy Blogs (Thanks Sarah!). This will be a fun thing to do with the kids during the holidays…making lip gloss and perfumes etc!

So you can see from my books & dvds what I plan to sneak into my easter holidays…have you got any plans?

My 5 links for the week

You have to try this!!!!! I stumbed upon thefind.com the other day. You basically put in a description of what you want to buy (I was looking for a poppy painting) and it searches the online stores, and quickly gives you a list with thumbnail photos of potential items that are available to buy online. WOW! http://www.thefind.com/

Remember Golden Gems? Allison from Petit Elefant took me on a trip down memory lane, when she showed pictures of the book “Cookie Monster and the Cookie Tree” on her post. I had forgotten that this memory was tucked away! http://www.petitelefant.com/2010/03/book-pick-cookie-monster-and-cookie.html

Home Style Magazine have a “Get Creative” page on their website.

They have lots a projects that you can do, with instructions. This crate bookcase looks interesting! http://www.homestylemagazine.co.nz/

Great tips on reducing stress in the evening. I’m always on a look out for ways to make the dinner/evening routine less stressful. Jamie from Steady Days listed some tips on Zen Family Habits. http://www.zenfamilyhabits.net/2010/03/does-chaos-reign-in-your-home-around-the-evening-hours/

I love how you can frame children’s art work like this! Ellen from The Long Thread, did this amazing auction project for her child’s school. http://thelongthread.com/?p=5846


I am so sleep deprived!

Have you ever made a faux pa that you just KNOW will come back to haunt you….but in your weakness you go ahead and do it anyway?

Well, last night, I did just that. My 5 year old had a nightmare and came to our room in the middle of the night. Instead of settling him, and putting him back in his bed…in my weakness I told him to hop in our bed. Big mistake! I have never been able to sleep soundly with a child in my bed..let alone a big 5 year old…so why oh why did my sleepy self let it happen?!? Boy am I paying for it now!

**Note to half asleep self in the middle of the night: Pleeease do not invite any more children in our bed. You can not sleep when you are squashed up in an awkward position ALL NIGHT!**

I take my hat off to all those mothers and fathers who are currently in a constant hazy, sleep deprived state from waking babies, children, uncomfortable pregnancies etc. You’re amazing!!

Just for laughs: The Evolution of Parenthood

I wonder if any of you can relate to these?? Enjoy! ~m

Your Clothes -

1st baby: You begin wearing maternity clothes as soon as your OB/GYN confirms your pregnancy.

2nd baby: You wear your regular clothes for as long as possible.

3rd baby: Your maternity clothes are your regular clothes.

The Baby’s Name -

1st baby: You pore over baby-name books and practice pronouncing and writing combinations of all your favourites.

2nd baby: Someone has to name their kid after your great-aunt Mavis, right? It might as well be you.

3rd baby: You open a name book, close your eyes, and see where your finger falls. Bimaldo? Perfect!

Preparing for the Birth -

1st baby: You practice your breathing religiously.

2nd baby: You don’t bother practicing because you remember that last time, breathing didn’t do a thing.

3rd baby: You ask for an epidural in your 8th month.

The Layette -

1st baby: You pre-wash your newborn’s clothes, color-coordinate them, and fold them neatly in the baby’s little bureau.

2nd baby: You check to make sure that the clothes are clean and discard only the ones with the darkest stains.

3rd baby: Boys can wear pink, can’t they?

Pacifier -

1st baby: If the pacifier falls on the floor, you put it away until you can go home and wash and boil it.

2nd baby: When the pacifier falls on the floor, you squirt it off with some juice from the baby’s bottle.

3rd baby: You wipe it off on your shirt and pop it back in.

Diapering -

1st baby: You change your baby’s diapers every hour, whether they need it or not.

2nd baby: You change their diaper every 2 to 3 hours, if needed.

3rd baby: You try to change their diaper before others start to complain about the smell or you see it sagging to their knees.

Worries -

1st baby: At the first sign of distress – a whimper, a frown – you pick up the baby.

2nd baby: You pick the baby up when her wails threaten to wake your firstborn.

3rd baby: You teach your 3-year-old how to rewind the mechanical swing.

Activities -

1st baby: You take your infant to Baby Gymnastics, Baby Swing, and Baby Story Hour.

2nd baby: You take your infant to Baby Gymnastics.

3rd baby: You take your infant to the supermarket and the dry cleaner.

Going Out -

1st baby: The first time you leave your baby with a sitter, you call home 5 times.

2nd baby: Just before you walk out the door, you remember to leave a number where you can be reached.

3rd baby: You leave instructions for the sitter to call only if she sees blood.

At Home -

1st baby: You spend a good bit of every day just gazing at the baby.

2nd baby: You spend a bit of every day watching to be sure your older child isn’t squeezing, poking, or hitting the baby.

3rd baby: You spend a little bit of every day hiding from the children.

My 5 links for the week

Make your own graphics using Sumo Paint! This is great if you don’t already have some sort of graphics application on your computer. Thanks to Magical Childhood for recommending this! My daughter is having a blast! http://www.sumopaint.com/app/

You can do a quick scribble

 

My 9 year old having a play with the application

Just incase you need a bit of encouragement to convert from microwave popcorn to good ol’ stove top popcorn….here is a video to show you how easy (and cheaper and healthier) it is! Read the comments, because there are some yummy toppings that the readers share. http://smallnotebook.org/2008/10/03/tasty-popcorn-no-microwave-needed/

One stop shop of craft tutorials! Instead of surfing the internet to find a tutorial on how to make a headband, apron or softie, go to Sew Chic & Unique, because they have done all the hard work for you! The hard part will be deciding WHICH project to try first! http://sewchicandunique.com/

Have you tried the “also principle”? At Confident mom they share how instead of thinking, “that will do” or ”that’s good enough” to try and apply the “also principle” in different aspects of your life. http://www.theconfidentmom.com/relationships/the-also-principle/

For example: When you clean up dinner dishes, shine the sink also.

When you pour yourself a cup of coffee, pour your spouse one also.

Love these simple tips on things you can do every day to keep the clutter down. This post at Unclutterer is written by Sherri over at Zen Family Habitshttp://unclutterer.com/2010/03/11/10-more-uncluttering-things-to-do-every-day/

Friday Fun Day: Revisiting the past

And the winner is….ME!! I won Spa Factory at Kiwi Mummy Blogs today!! Thank you Sarah!! I can’t wait to use this with my kids! (Why am I visualising my youngest daughter eating the lip gloss?!?)

Yay! The sun was back today…I missed you!

I am still trying to put in an effort once a week to do something a bit out of the ordinary with the kids.

Today, I took the kids to our old stomping grounds in Wadestown. I showed them our very first flat/apartment. This was my oldest daughter’s first home. I told them stories, and showed them the sights as we drove around. My son started asking about where his first house was, and where my parents used to live. They really seem to enjoy stories from the past. I still remember sitting in my grandmother’s study, and reading notebooks that she had complied with stories of my ancestors and black and white pictures to go along with them. I loved it! Even if we aren’t natural storytellers, or record keepers, I definitely think it is something that we can learn and develop….I think it is something that our kids would benefit from and perhaps even our kids’ kids!

So, after the trip down memory lane, we went to a local park, and just played in the sun. My favourite part was having my 9 year old on my lap on the swing and just lying back and swinging together. (How many more years can I get away with this?!?!)

No camera on hand today, just my trusty cellphone camera

We grabbed hubby on the way home and a HUGE 20 inch pizza from Wholly Pizzas..yum! It was so fun to watch the kids try and put the HUGE pieces of pizza in their mouths!

Off to have our in-house date night tonight…yay! Hubby’s been out 3 nights this week, so it will be nice to relax together.

Inspirational Quote: Never lose your enthusiasm

“The secret of genius is to carry the spirit of the child into old age, which means never losing your enthusiasm.”

ALDOUS HUXLEY

Have you noticed the expression on children’s faces? They don’t just smile, they have enthusiasm, joy, contentment, happiness, elation all rolled into one and it just beams from their faces.

It doesn’ t even have to be about anything in particular too! Look at babies, they just coo and smile just because you are there ;)

I sometimes catch my reflection in a mirror, or in a car window. I just look…perplexed! (Probably because I’m thinking all the time!)

I think we need to give our cheeks a bit of a work out and really use all the muscles in our face and participate in joyous moments with a huge laugh, or a toothy grin. It may freak your children out, but hey, I bet it will feel great! (I’m smiling just thinking about it…..now I’m practicing my toothy grin that will be on show for my kids tomorrow! haha! If you could see me now!)

Guilt-free Indulgence, one discovery date at a time…

It’s autumn here now…

I miss the sun….I miss the warmth….It’s getting colder, and I miss the beach….

There are some good things that make their appearance in cold weather…hearty soups and stews served with fresh bread…mmmmm…..oh! and we can’t forget hot chocolate!

*mental note: put marshmallows on the shopping list*

Another good thing to do on a cold day is getting a blanket and snuggling up to watch a good movie. That’s exactly what I did for my discovery date today.

I love discovery dates. Once a week, for a couple of hours, I give myself permission to forget the housework and do something that makes me smile. I wish I started this years ago! Even with a little one (or two or three) at home with me all day, I think I could have done it in the evening, or carved out a couple of hours in the weekend…I just didn’t think about doing something on a regular basis.

Now that I am doing it, it feeds my soul. My children make me very happy, but I also get to discover a different kind of “happiness”. Becoming aware of what I love, and exploring that, brings me that kind of happiness.

So today I got giddy thinking about getting out a sappy dvd while my daughter was at Playcentre. I mean, watching a dvd during the day!?! How indulgent is that!

Calling it a discover date, helps me fight off those thoughts that are telling me I am being lazy, that I should be doing something more useful with my time, and that I should be productive. Calling it a discovery date helps me to remember that it is exercise for my soul. I think it is good practice to do something you love and not feel bad about it. It also gets me out of my comfort zone to try new things in the name of “discovery”.

It’s only taken me 9 years of motherhood to figure this out, hopefully it won’t take you that long!

My 5 links for the week

This lady is amazingly talented! She comes up with plans so you can make your own furniture. Whenever I look at the photos, I start dreaming of my house filled with beautiful unique furniture….dreams are free right! http://knockoffwood.blogspot.com/

Wow! You can make your own custom storage baskets just by sewing up some fabric and using cardboard?!? http://sew4home.com/projects/storage-solutions/370-stylish-baby-nursery-collapsible-storage-baskets

Maddie from Li’l Magoolie has provided a downloadable flower card. Perfect for thank you cards, or invitations! http://lilmagoolie.wordpress.com/2010/02/25/freebie-downloadable-flower-card/

I just stumbled across and online version of “The Littlies” Magazine (their website is pretty good too http://www.littlies.co.nz) Great recipes and stories. There is an advice column by one of my favourite parenting gurus Diane Levy. I went to a workshop she ran once, and she is so great! Really funny too. http://www.mygazines.net/search?q=%22Littlies%20Parenting%20Magazine%22&type=publications&sortBy=publish_date

Go and have a read of Simple Mom’s “20 Tips for Finding Your Routine with Kids”. They are simple and practical. I feel like printing it out and sticking it where I can see it, to help me stay focused throughout the day! http://simplemom.net/20-tips-for-finding-your-routine-with-kids-2/

Fun Kids Activity: Having fun with Water!

My son hammering ice at Playcentre when he was 3

I ran my first Water Play workshop for Playcentre today. It went well *phew*

(Playcentre is a parent co-operative that provide early childhood education. In other words, the parents run the sessions and the management of the centre. In order to provide quality sessions we participate in the adult education (which is free!). We learn lots of stuff, from child development, creativity, positive guidance, communication etc. We can also attend workshops to learn about how we can provide science, literacy, maths, music, and tons of other topics (like waterplay) to our pre-schoolers)

The hit activity today was the “magic picture”…This is where you make a picture using white crayon on white paper. You then spray it with watered down food colouring/dye. If you provide spray bottles with the primary colours (red, blue and yellow), you can mix your own colours as you spay them on your paper to reveal the crayon drawings.

Source google images

Here are a bunch of water play ideas that you could try at home.

Water Play:

Water Flow

Experiment with whirlpools, fountains, downwards flows, currents, pumps, dams, obstructions, different levels, swirling the water to make objects move. Try using piping and guttering and flow water or boats down.

Just Water

Put your hands in some water. How does water sound, feel, look, move?  Use warm water on cold days.

Measuring and pouring

Different size containers will give children experience with volume. Put a board across the water trough so the child can rest containers on it while pouring. Can also pour from a jug to fill several glasses. Tea parties.

Water Music

Help children make musical jars by filling a row of jars with different levels of water.  Have some beaters to hit the jars.  Use coloured water to make the levels more obvious.

Make a Sailing Boat

Use cardboard cartons (eg top cut from a milk carton). Attach a straw and paper sail (use of bit of clay to stick it down).  Blow on it to help it sail.

Wet and Dry

Add water to these things and watch changes in colour, shape, size, texture:

(Dry) Sand, sponges, paper, teatowel, flour, sawdust, disposable nappy, dried leaves.

Sinking and Floating

Collect things that float – wood, plastic bottle with lid, bark chips, cork, leaf, acorn, feather, pumice, plastic cups, sponge, ball, sawdust.

Collect things that don’t float – paper clip, nail, clay, stone, solid plastic, sand.

Things that do/don’t float – sponge, solid plastic, cups, dishes.

Try holding down something that floats, then let it go.

Can you weight down a floating object by using non-floating objects (eg wood, by using stones).

Drop balls of clay into water. (Sinks)  Now make a piece of clay into a boat shape and put it in the water. (Floats)

Potions

Make potions to encourage experience with floating/ emulsions, things that dissolve and things that don’t.

Have available: clay, flour, sawdust, leaves, grass clippings, bark chips, flowers, sand, earth, powder paint, salt, oil.

Put oil and dye in bottle and shake.  Watch the emulsion slowly separating again.

Dispersion

Add droppers filled with different coloured dye to water. Watch it disperse.

Water as Ice

Freeze: balloons filled with water, rubber gloves, ice cubes, containers with flowers/leaves, a small plastic toy frozen inside.   Use hammers or wooden mallets to chip the ice away.  (Put ice on a towel to stop slipping.) Use drills on big blocks of ice.  Make ice in a round cake tin and hang outside – watch it drip. Place coloured rock salt on the ice and see the coloured tunnels appear in the ice.

Have a snow day

Some industries (eg fish factories) will dump a load of snow/ice to your Playcentre.  Experiment with sliding, building, squirting dye.

Water in the sandpit

Children build hills, valleys, castles, roads, then add water (hose) until it all floods. Talk about floods, rivers, erosion, dams etc.

Water volcano

Prop hose upwards (use a pipe to feed the hose through), pile the sand around until it is covered, then get a child to turn the water on full.

Balloons filled with water and air

Insert one balloon inside another.  Fill the inner balloon with water and tie. Blow air into the outer balloon and tie.  Try throwing and bouncing it.

Water to drink

Small jugs for children to fill their own drinking cups at morning tea.  Add straws to blow bubbles.

Make banana milkshakes. Freeze iceblocks with pieces of fruit inside.  Freeze an orange then slice it cold to make fruit ices.

After the rain stand under a tree and shake the drops down.  Drink the rain.

Bubbles

Mix: 1/4 cup good quality detergent to a litre of water.  Add a little sugar to strengthen bubbles.  Bubbles work best on an overcast windless day.

Make bubbles by blowing through frames such as plastic rings (eg from 6 packs), plastic lids cut into shapes, pipe cleaners, electrical wire; or by swishing the frame (eg tennis bat, fly swat) through the air.

Rainbows

Turn the nozzle on the hose to a fine spray and make rainbows.

Painting on wet paper

Watch the colours run with mixed paint or sprinkle dry powder paint on wet paper  (use thicker quality paper).

Fishing

Fill a paddling pool.  Use hand held nets to catch a variety of floating objects.

Bubble prints

Put food dye and a little detergent in a cup.  Child blows through a straw until the bubbles spill over.  Gently press a piece of paper over the top to make the print. (Check child knows how to blow through the straw first!)

Fingerpaint and Coloured Ice

Warm finger paint in a trough with coloured ice blocks on sticks.

Water and big muscle

Waterslides (plastic sheet or gym mat) down a slope.  Use detergent and water to slide more. Or attach a garden sprinkler to the hose so children can run through it.

Mud hole

Make a mud patch for children to play in with dinosaurs or trucks.  Or use clay and water.

Nature display

Fish in tank, photos of waterfalls, cycles of water (rain clouds, floods, puddles) etc

Deserts, animals drinking, whales spouting.

Weather

Talk about the weather – clouds that bring rain.  Go out in the rain.

Flowers drink water too

Put white flowers in jars of dye and water and watch the flower change colour.

Washing

Washing hands, washing hair, washing dolls clothes, washing babies (dolls), washing down sandy things eg trucks.

Bring a car to be washed.  Bring a baby to be bathed. Let the children wash the outside windows.  Create a car wash for the children to ride bikes through. Wash a dog.

Sanity Savers: In the Laundry

The sock monster had well and truly invaded my house, and left the carnage of matchless socks behind it. The children were growing out of their clothes at rapid speeds that I wasn’t keeping up with, and I was sure that one of my “angels” had been putting their clean clothes into the laundry hamper…hmmmm..

All this equaled MOUNT WASHMORE!

Peace has been restored on the laundry front, and here is how I did it:

  • Buy multiple pairs of socks that are the same colour/pattern. This has saved my life!! No longer am I searching for the illusive striped or flower sock, I just need to find the similar coloured sock, and match away! I also put the socks in a mesh bag, which makes finding socks a lot easier (I put the mesh bag straight into the dryer too!). My friend pegs matching socks on the washing line and then folds them together when they dry to combat the sock monster. (Her sister was the one that got me onto buying multiples of socks…fountain of wisdom between the two I tell ya!)
  • Have a holding bay for stray socks. Create a holding bay for your matchless socks. As a stray sock comes through the wash, check the “holding bay” to find a match. Purge the “holding bay” often! (It is not ok to have baby socks in your holding bay when your youngest is 3…yes I am speaking from experience!)
  • Take it out of circulation. You KNOW the top is too small for them/too uncomfortable/they just don’t like it and they never wear it, so why does it continually turn up in your laundry pile, or your child’s drawer? As you sort your clean washing, and you come across something your child no longer wears, put it in one of these containers to 1.Store it (for the next child), 2.Donate it (get it out of your house asap), or 3.Sell it (get on trademe and make a bit of change), 4.Mend it, or 5.Throw it away…but whatever you do, DO NOT put it back into circulation!
  • Get the kids involved. Have you thought about getting your kids involved? Maybe they can: Help separate and sort the clean laundry. Assist with the loading and starting of the washing machine and/or dryer. Fold clothing according to their capabilities. Put away their clothes (even if they are young, and can only manage their socks and underwear). Learn to put their own dirty laundry IN the hamper.
  • Get a routine that works for you. Whether you do multiple loads in one day, or you do a load a day, the key is to find a routine that works for you. If you are constantly searching for clothes, then it’s time to re-visit the routine and try something different! Since I am constantly in and out of the house, I use the act of returning home as a trigger to do the next step in the laundry BEFORE I do anything else. This way, it is always small and manageable and means it is less time consuming, and can slot into my schedule easier.

Happy Laundry Days everyone!

That was then…this is now

I had decided that the day was too beautiful to stay inside. After school I said we were going out.

A few of them weren’t too keen on the idea. They just wanted to stay inside.

Exhibit A: The boy who said "I'm just going to stay in the car, and not come out!"

Good thing I don’t always listen to my children ;)

We went to the river at Willowbank Park in Tawa. We didn’t even make it around to the playground area. We found a good spot where there were walking stones across the river, and stayed there for the rest of the afternoon. It was a blast!

But the sulky faces and whiney comments at the beginning, I could have done without, thank you very much. So that is exactly what they were told on the way home! haha!

While we were at the river I was thinking about how our outings have evolved over the years….

I remember nervously stepping out with four children, aged 0,2,4 and 6.

I would not attempt places with water, unless I had another adult on hand.

I would choose parks where the play equipment wouldn’t be too challenging Otherwise I would end up with different children calling out my name for help all at the same time!

The parks had to be relatively contained, and where the play equipment were close together so I could keep an eye on all the kids easily.

I also remember back to when I was a home body. Quite content hanging at home, making our own fun. I had no clue what was out there, but I didn’t really care, because I had my wee ones with me and we created our own fun memories.

When we went to the zoo last week, I saw the sheltered picnic spot that brought back memories of my first big outing with our baby and toddler…all by myself!

When it came time to feeding the baby, we parked ourselves on a sheltered picnic table. I remember nervously watching my toddler eating her snack, hoping I would finish breastfeeding BEFORE my 2 year old finished her food and decided it would be really fun to go exploring without mummy!

That was then…

This is now…

It had to be one where it was relatively contained, and where the play equipment were close together so I could keep an eye on all the kids at the same time.

My 5 links for the week

I’ve always wanted to try a “cookie in a jar” recipe! This one looks gooood! http://www.theconfidentmom.com/recipes/chocolate-oatmeal-cookies-jen-tilley/

I love this quote that was mentioned in this post, “It’s not the amount of time you devote, but what you devote to the time that counts” http://momentswithlove.blogspot.com/2010/03/little-ones.html

Emma from Freedom Creative posted about this totally unique blog! Heidi Burton from Making Strangers hand writes her posts and includes lovely sketches..love it!! http://heidiburton.wordpress.com/

Yummy cupcake recipe with some troubleshooting tips on cupcaking. Thanks Destitute Gourmet! http://destitutegourmet.blogspot.com/2010/03/cupcakes.html

Have you even taken a personality test? I did! And I was ISFP – the artist/composer! Why not take the test and come back and tell me what you are! http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp

ISFP: Quiet, serious, sensitive and kind. Do not like conflict, and not likely to do things which may generate conflict. Loyal and faithful. Extremely well-developed senses, and aesthetic appreciation for beauty. Not interested in leading or controlling others. Flexible and open-minded. Likely to be original and creative. Enjoy the present moment.

(source: http://www.kiwano.ca/personality-type-indicators)

(photo from: http://www.paladinexec.com/store/mbti_cards.php)

M.I.A – Missing In Action

I haven’t really been on my computer since Wednesday! Here is just a snippet of what we’ve been up to while I was “missing in action”.

Thursday:

School Picnic at Days Bay, Eastbourne. It was a BEAUTIFUL day!

This was the first year I didn’t have a baby, or two preschoolers or a runner (a child who just seems to run in all sorts of directions, and never comes back!), so I decided to go along as a parent helper. My 3 year old enjoyed being held by all the big girls.

I enjoyed watching my daughter’s team work really hard together on their turtle design for the sandcastle competition. The girls came up with their design and implemented it themselves …. and they won!

Had a nice evening out with some friends. What more could you ask for, good company and an endless supply of dessert (we went to “The Whitby” and had the dessert buffet). I got to hold a gorgeous wee baby….yes I am very clucky!

Friday:

In my effort to make Fridays a bit more special, I decided to take the kids to the Wellington Zoo after school. The tiger looked like it wanted to eat us for afternoon tea!

Saturday:

We went out to Yum Char to celebrate my brother’s 35th birthday. So yummy! Then my kids spent time with their cousin playing with a whole big tub of retro lego that used to belong to my brothers. They had a blast!

Sunday:

It was an eventful day, because my hubby became Bishop of our Ward. Although it is a big responsibility, we feel really good about it. My mum invited the bishopric and my hubby’s brother’s family for dinner at her place – spur of the moment! So we went home and checked what we had in each of our freezers and pantries, and managed to pull it off. Everyone ended up bringing something, so it worked out perfectly.

Reality Check: I love the fact that as I have looked back on the week, I seem to have forgotten all the odd, weird or frustrating moments. The only one I can remember is when I had to use food to entice my son out of his comatosed state so he wouldn’t have a nap in the middle of the day, and be up all night! ha! I love my short term memory!

I want it to be summer all year, and live at the beach

I am getting better at noticing the sunsets and sunrises outside our window (we had a stunning orange sunrise and pink sunset today)….now I just have train myself to sit a little bit longer, really enjoy the moment, and just linger, instead of scurrying off quickly to the next thing. (Can you tell I’m talking about motherhood as well!)

Had no real deadlines except for the school pick up, so we just chilled out today.

I took my 3 year old and her 3 year old second cousin to the Duncan Park Play Area in Linden for a picnic and a play. (My older children named this play area “Friendship Park” because they always seem to make friends whenever they come here. :) )

I got a kick out of watching my budding 3 year old climbers master some of the trickier climbing equipment and hear them exclaim, “Yay! I did it!!” (If you look really carefully at the above picture, you’ll see them climbing solo. At the beginning they needed me to tell them where to put their feet. Now look at them!)

Then we drove over to Island Bay.

They have great rock pools near the orange “bait house”. We went searching for crabs, and found a few in all different shapes and sizes. This little one has one big claw!

We found a neat little rock pool that housed a couple of crabs. As we spent more time there, we noticed the shells started moving around. That was really neat!

Wouldn’t it be great if there was no homework, no meals to prepare, and no chores to be done, and we could just hang out at rock pools all day.*bliss*

You have to read this story!

My friend sent me this email this morning, and I just HAD to share!

A man came home from work and found his three children outside, still in their pajamas, playing in the mud, with empty food boxes and wrappers strewn all around the front yard. The door of his wife’s car was open, as was the front door to the house and there was no sign of the dog.

Proceeding into the entry, he found an even bigger mess.
A   lamp had been knocked over, and the throw rug was wadded against one wall.    In the front room the TV was loudly blaring a cartoon channel, and the family room was strewn with toys and various items    of clothing. In the kitchen, dishes filled the sink, breakfast food was spilled on the counter, the fridge door was open wide, dog food was spilled on the floor, a broken glass lay under the table, and a small pile of sand was spread by the back door .


He quickly headed up the stairs, stepping over toys and more piles of clothes, looking for his wife. He was worried she may be ill, or that something serious had happened.
He was met with a small trickle of water as it made its way out the bathroom door. As he peered inside he found wet towels, scummy soap and more toys strewn over the floor. Miles of toilet paper lay in a heap and toothpaste had been smeared over the mirror and walls.

As he rushed to the bedroom, he found his wife still curled up in the bed in her pajamas, reading a novel. She looked up at him, smiled, and asked how his day went.

He looked at her bewildered and asked, “What happened here today?”
She again smiled and answered, “You know every day when you come home from work and you ask me what in the world did I do today?”
“Yes,” was his incredulous reply.
She answered, “Well, today I didn’t do it.”

(I found the images on the internet…but I have a few images in my head that would have gone with this story quite nicely….unfortunately, on those occasions I was too busy standing with my mouth wide open to grab the camera!)

My 5 links for the week

Look! You can make a bag out of a placemat! http://littlebirdiesecrets.blogspot.com/2010/02/place-mat-purse-tutorial-three-projects.html

Or if you want to make a bag from scratch, here is a good link for an easy tote http://sewmamasew.com/blog2/?p=514

Half price Fridays at the Wellington Zoo during March! http://www.wellingtonzoo.com/net/news/article.aspx?id=93

Tips on getting the most out of your camera. http://feathersfreesiasandfishingtackle.blogspot.com/2010/02/camera-loves-ya-baby.html

Great post about “crafting rich experiences for our children”, I like the idea of an “exploration day”, and it has given me some tips on making Fridays more special! Gotta love the web! http://simplemom.net/crafting-rich-experiences-for-our-children-on-a-frugal-budget/