Lessons in Motherhood: My health wake up call

We often associate “Sustainable Living” to the environment, but have you ever considered how it can relate to our health and wellbeing?

Is the way you treat your body sustainable?

Luckily throughout my life, and through my pregnancies I have been quite “healthy”, so I thought. In other words, I haven’t had many complications. So I have continued doing what I do, and not thinking much about it.

I have been unwell, on and off for about 3 months now, and today I was thinking, “This is the only body I have. If I want it to become a well oiled machine, what would I need to do?”

As I thought about nutrition, hydration, and exercise I was shocked to realise that the very thing that I encourage my children to do – in order for them to be healthy and happy – I had stopped doing myself!

Without thinking about it, I had developed some habits that were not doing my body any favours:

  • I was good at getting my children to eat a healthy high fibre breakfast to start their day on a good note, but sometimes I forgot to eat breakfast.
  • I was good at giving my children water or milk to drink, but I forgot to pour me a glass when I ate, or re-hydrate myself during the day.
  • I was good at including vegetables with my children’s meals and plenty of fruit in their lunch boxes and snacks, but I forgot to prepare a salad or eat plenty of fruit throughout the day.
  • I was good at getting my children to go to bed at their bed time because I knew they would become grumpy and irritable in the morning, but I forgot that if I had a late night it can actually make me grumpy and irritable too.

With so many things to do and remember, sometimes taking care of ourselves physically can get dropped off our to do list. When there doesn’t seem to be an immediate detrimental effect, we continue the behaviour that isn’t “sustainable” for our bodies.

On The Oprah Winfrey’s Show: “What is your body trying to tell you”, Dr. Northrup says your health depends on what’s going on with your mind, body and soul, and your symptoms are actually your soul’s way of bringing deeper issues to your attention. “You’re in labor with yourself because everything that no longer serves your highest purpose and your optimal health starts to go away and your body gives you signals’—Hey, you’ve been putting too much stuff under the carpet emotionally, nutritionally, not exercising … putting everyone else first. The kids, the husband, the job, whatever,’” Dr. Northrup says. “And your soul is saying, ‘What about me? What about me?’ And your body will start getting symptoms to hit you over the head with till you wake up.”

I went to the doctor again today, and I will be doing more tests, but one of the things that the doctor did tell me I needed to do was get more water into me and eat more fibre (fruits and veg!). So simple! Yet it is something that I have not placed a high enough priority on lately.

I think the learning I am going to take away with me from this experience is, “I am not putting a high enough priority on my health.”

I hope that by sharing this, you won’t need a wake up call like I did, before you start thinking  about how you can make changes in your lifestyle to make your health and wellbeing more sustainable.

Much love~!

Good reads:

Oprah – What is your body trying to tell you? Gives lots of advice about lifestyle, nutrition, taking care of your body and yourself (yay for discovery dates!)

My Pyramid: One size doesn’t fit all. MyPyramid offers personalized eating plans and interactive tools to help you plan/ assess your food choices based on the Dietary Guidelines for Americans.

About.com: Highest fiber vegetables, fruits and foods (funny, I just noticed that in NZ we spell “fibre” differently from Americans “fiber”)

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9 thoughts on “Lessons in Motherhood: My health wake up call

  1. Thanks for the reminder! I realised exactly the same thing yesterday! Looking at old photos I realised that even though I’m only 32, I feel old and tired all the time and have been missing out on some simple things like drinking water, eating fruit, and going to bed on time, all things I make sure my children do.

  2. This is just so true… I know I care for my kids much better than myself… I am carefully knocking away at my list of bad health habits for me in the name of my kids… You know give them each a biscuit and then eat the rest because they are bad for them. We stopped getting biscuits! And I just signed them all up for gym. While they are in class I have to be in the gym and have to work out – totally cool and we are all loving it!!! Getting to bed is a whole ‘nother … but slowly getting to back to midnight… and its amazing how energized I feel after a good nights sleep!!! Amazing!!!

  3. I actually have been going through a similar experience myself. In the last year I felt like I was losing my zing and realized that I was letting a lot of those little healthy habits go too. I’ve been on a mission the last few months to regain control over my health and it’s been an eye-opening experience. Good luck!

  4. Wow, me too. I recently decided to get rid of that stay up late beast, with mixed results. Good luck to you! It’s somehow so much harder when it’s us instead of them isn’t it!

  5. Hugs to you x I do the same and have to pull myself up and get strict with myself. I’m often cutting up a apple or kiwi fruit at the request of one child, but fail to feed myself. Or it gets to lunch time and I realize I’ve made sure the children are hydrated, but haven’t had a drink myself.

    Tomorrow I shall eat more fruit & veg, drink more water and think of you, hoping that you are doing the same xx

    We put everyone else first all too often, but unless we look after ourselves we do no one any favours. xx

  6. How are you feeling? Daijo-bu? Thanks for the good advice, your post was a wake up call for me! I, too, try my best everyday to keep our kids live healthy lifestyles, yet I tend not to put high enough priority on my own health and well being… I shall change this around! Anyways, I hope you’re feeling better!!

  7. so so true!! I feel frequently overwhelmed and don’t do much to relax. Last weekend when my honey took the kids out for a bit instead of racing about tidying stuff, I ran a lovely bubble bath. I hadn’t done that in years and am determined to do it more often. Thanks for the “discovery date” inspiration too… I’m off to the Titirangi craft markets today, alone! Can’t wait.

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